My home lab servers basically never break, and my laptop used to all the time. That’s bugged me for years because my servers are always on, run more varied software, and serve more users (okay, one user, but he’s very demanding). They also get far less attention day to day, but that was the very reason they survived. The difference wasn’t the hardware or the distro. It was that my Proxmox boxes were maintained on a schedule, and my laptop got updated whenever the notification icon annoyed me enough to click it.